Have you ever found yourself caught up in the everyday humdrum of life and work, and can’t remember the last time you enjoyed the fruits of your labor? You’re not alone! It’s easy to get so busy trying to provide the best lives for ourselves and our families that we forget to stop and smell the damn roses. In How to Start Romanticizing Your Life, we will remember how to slow down and live within the moments, truly appreciating all that we already have and the beautiful blessings surrounding us.
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Not only do we forget to appreciate these moments, but we also start viewing everything around us with less interest. It’s all part of the daily hustle.
In this post, you will find images with headings that inspire you to romanticize your life. If you are interested in discovering more ways to add a touch of femininity to your life, check out this post HERE: https://afemininelife.com/10-life-changing-feminine-choices-that-will-transform-your-mind-confidence/
Let’s begin!
Start Romanticizing Your Life when…You are going on a walk
How often do you go for a walk only to feel pressured for time, or find yourself walking solely to collect steps? I’m guilty of this.
Sometimes I walk with the primary goal of fitting in some exercise, and in doing so, I forget to truly take in my surroundings, breathe deeply, and appreciate the simple fact that I can be outside. This is especially true when I walk along familiar paths.
There have been times when I was injured or too sick to walk, and it made me realize that there may come a day when I won’t be able to move around as freely or easily.
I know it sounds a bit deep, but it’s true nevertheless.
When…
You’re Decorating Your Home
Decorating your home. Cleaning your home. It’s kind of the same thing, right?
See what I did right there? How many times can one woman decorate her home? Don’t answer that…it’s probably a lot. What I mean to say is, when you take the words or phase cleaning your home, and turn your mindset around to decorating, or staging your home, you open up the possibility of turning every day chores into an opportunity. You are romanticizing what used to be rigorous, endless cleaning and turning it into a pleasant experience of caring for your home.
Don’t believe me?
When you are dusting or putting items away, what if you put them back up a little bit different every time? Or find a reason to decorate with a vase of fresh flowers or new fragrant room or linen spray.
By…
Passenger Gazing
When you’re in the passenger seat, do you find yourself looking out the window, closing your eyes, or turning around to chat with fellow passengers? Riding in the car is often an overlooked activity. Traveling is not just a means of getting from one place to another; it’s also an opportunity to see something new.
Even during familiar commutes, there’s always something fresh to observe. So take a moment to breathe, and encourage those who are talking in the backseat to look out the window and enjoy the breathtaking views of this ever-changing world.
If you have younger kids (older ones enjoy this game too), try playing “I Spy.”
Start Romanticizing Your Life when…
You’re at Work!
Life can be enjoyable, even at work, if you avoid getting bogged down by tedious tasks. If you’re fortunate enough to love what you do for a living (and I know I am!), you may already find joy in the little things, even while “working.”
If you’re not currently doing something you love, consider this post a sign to explore jobs that might bring you happiness. Alternatively, you can change your approach at work. Be a voice of positivity and work to create a more enjoyable environment for yourself and those around you. By showing up to work with a positive attitude and a determination to make the most out of each day, you can inspire others to do the same.
When…
You’re Outside Soaking up the Sun
Making the most of every waking moment can be exhausting, and that’s understandable. In that case, it’s best to start small. When you step outside for some fresh air, truly take in each moment. Focus on every beam of sunlight filtering through the trees and every speck of dust caught in it. Have you ever really noticed how beautiful a tree looks in the wind, or how everything seems to glitter after a rainstorm?
If you are looking for more creative ways to get outside, try taking your computer or work outside with you. Read a book in the garden or by the pool…the point is, be intentional with your outdoor time and open yourself up to appreciating the world around you.
Even when…
You’re Exercising
Focusing on the present moment makes it easier to appreciate everything you do, including exercising. Research shows that being mentally engaged—rather than distracted by TV or other activities—allows you to get more out of your workout. You have a choice: you can either dread the physical effort or motivate yourself, give it your all, and then congratulate yourself for completing another challenging session.
To enhance your experience, pay close attention to how your body moves. Tune in to yourself—notice your heart racing and your muscles straining (and perhaps even shaking if you enjoy pushing your limits, as I do!). Celebrate how your body comes alive and your spirit soars, and take pride in your strengths.
Start Romanticizing Your Life when…
You are on vacation with your family
Focusing on the present moment makes it easier to appreciate everything you do, including exercising. Research indicates that being mentally engaged, rather than distracted by TV (which I sometimes try to justify), allows you to get more out of your workout. You have a choice: you can either dread the physical effort or motivate yourself, give it your all, and then congratulate yourself for completing another challenging session.
To enhance your experience, pay close attention to how your body moves. Tune into yourself—feel your heart racing and your muscles straining (and perhaps even shaking if you enjoy pushing your limits, as I do!). Celebrate how your body comes alive and your spirit soars; take pride in your strengths.
You can also romanticize a family vacation by letting go of rigid plans and simply living in the moment. A memory shared is worth more than a memory captured.
Definitely when…
It’s Cause for Celebrating
It seems like every few weeks or months, there’s something new to celebrate—a birthday, an anniversary, a wedding, a holiday, and so on. So why not? This romanticized approach might feel blunt, but the message is clear: just celebrate the occasion! Life is too short not to.
The key, when there are so many occasions to celebrate, is to live in the moment and truly understand what it means to reach that milestone. You are alive. You’re here. You matter. And so do the people you’re celebrating with. Find genuine happiness for whatever occasion is occurring.
Or when…
You’re Baking or Cooking in the Kitchen!
I prepare 6 lunches, 6 breakfasts, 6 dinners, several snacks, and the occasional dessert each day as part of my regular routine. While you may be cooking for a family of six, preparing meals can start to feel repetitive when you’re taking care of others.
Repetition can take some of the allure, or romance, out of cooking and providing meals for your family. Likewise, you run the risk of feeling less glamorous, and we can’t have that. Let’s romanticize baking again! Additionally, let’s bring back the joy in the kitchen.
Here are some simple ways to romanticize baking:
1. Have several cute aprons to choose from and wear them while in the kitchen.
2. Give yourself ample time for your kitchen tasks. Rushing is never glamorous.
3. Take pride in your work and enjoy the process by shifting your mindset.
4. Teach your kids to bake or cook with you, creating memories and teaching valuable skills.
5. Put on music while you cook or bake—let the music match your mood. Personally, I love listening to Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Paramore, Christina Perri, Jess Glyn, Lifehouse, The Greatest Showman Soundtrack, and others while cooking.
6. Have fun arranging the food on plates, decorating smoothie or oatmeal bowls, or writing cute notes in your kids’ lunches.
With these tips, you’ll surely gain more satisfaction from a job well done!
Start Romanticizing Your Life…
During Outdoor Chores (such as watering the garden)
There’s nothing less glamorous than doing chores, am I right? Vacuuming, doing the dishes, scrubbing toilets, and even outdoor tasks like watering the garden can feel like a burden. However, these chores don’t have to be a complete hassle. There’s no reason you can’t make the most of every task at hand.
I admit, this is a challenging mindset to adopt, especially when it comes to romanticizing tasks like scrubbing dirty tubs. But you can accomplish anything you set your mind to by focusing on your blessings. Not to sound preachy, but reminders are always helpful.
Being grateful for having a roof over your head, a bathroom to clean, and people in your life to care for can shift your perspective. Doing your work gladly will create more satisfaction in a job well done and remind us to appreciate each moment for what we have.
And also during…
Another Morning and Another Coffee
Coffee has become a morning staple for many, and it’s honestly one of my favorite reasons to get up out of bed every day. But is it one of those things, a part of our daily habits, that we take for granted?
Do you sit and slowly sip your coffee in the morning, or do you rush out the door with a to-go cup in your hand, drinking it way too fast on your drive to work, taking kids to school, or running errands? Or worse, do you carry your coffee around all morning, set it down on a desk, and by the time you remember it, it’s gone cold? Gulp. The horror!
Take a page out of the French living diary and make your coffee time a slow, enjoyable ritual. Give yourself more time in the morning to sit and drink from a mug or teacup and truly bask in its caffeinated glory.
Start Romanticizing Your Life…
During Early Morning Wake-ups
When I think of romanticizing mornings, I envision scenes from vintage Disney princess movies. The princess yawns delicately, stretches her arms toward the sky, and lets out a contented sigh. With a cheerful leap from her bed, she bursts into song, embracing the day ahead. She skips to the window, throws it open wide, and beams with joy as she welcomes the warm sunlight. Soon, the birds join in song, and every woodland creature comes to share the moment.
As she showers, her melody continues, and she twirls through her morning routine. Dressed in something feminine and styled to perfection, she carries on with her day, filled with spunk and liveliness, ready to embrace whatever comes her way.
And don’t forget when…
You’re Having Holiday Traditions
There’s something inherently romantic about traditions themselves. Keeping alive practices passed down through generations honors and romanticizes our family’s past. One of the reasons people get excited about holiday decorating and traditions is the joy of re-creating cherished memories while incorporating modern touches. This blend evokes a sense of nostalgia for the past and the promise of the future, especially when you teach your kids and pass down these traditions.
For sure when…
You See a Beautiful Sunrise or Sunset
No two sunrises or sunsets are alike. Waking early to embrace a sky painted with hope and concluding the day with a beautiful farewell brings a profound sense of fulfillment. Our minds connect the joy of beginning and ending our days in an aesthetically pleasing and meaningful way. Watching the sun rise and set with our partner is about as romantic as it gets. And it doesn’t break the bank!
And…
At Every Milestone, (including turning 30, and all the ages after)
Instead of fearing our age, what if we were to celebrate every milestone? It really comes down to a shift in thought and recognizing the importance of being grateful for the opportunity to be on this earth to celebrate another birthday. With a little practice, we can embrace this mindset. The truth is, you can be glamorous and feminine at any age. Looking forward to each birthday rather than dreading it fosters happiness and gratitude, allowing us to romanticize the process of getting older. Plus, having someone special to grow old with—whether it’s a best friend, partner, or spouse—makes it even better. Let’s celebrate each other and make every birthday a grand occasion!
Especially…
Romanticize Your Romance
When you’ve been married for some time—19 years this year for us!—it’s easy to accidentally take small things for granted in your relationship. Just like anything else in life, when a routine becomes a solid way of living, it’s easy to forget to slow down and appreciate it all.
But I have news for you: your relationship is just like this. When you are so used to each other being a constant presence in your life, you can’t imagine life any other way. Reaching your 19th anniversary isn’t possible without taking pride in your partner and your relationship.
Furthermore, celebrating your relationship is not a boastful act; you have every right to be proud. That’s the secret: nurture and celebrate your relationship. Love, and being in love, should always be cherished. Never forget to show each other—and the world, if you can’t help it—how deeply in love you still are.
Summary
You can romanticize your life when you seek beauty and meaning in every day tasks and moments. I hope you enjoyed this post. I’d love to hear any feedback that you might have, or additional ideas on the topic. Thank you for visiting a Feminine Life!
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